Tuesday, April 22, 2014

Cora from Asia

WE ARE EXCITED TO ANNOUNCE CORA HAS FOUND HER FOREVER FAMILY!!!! SO HAPPY FOR THIS PRECIOUS GIRL.  THANK YOU TO EVERYONE WHO HELPED TO ADVOCATE FOR HER

We're featuring cute Cora today. Cora is 9 and has deformed hands and feet. 
Generally she is a happy girl, but can be quiet because of her disability. She gets along with others children from the orphanage and school very well, and she likes to help out the nanny at the orphanage.  She is welcome at the orphanage and school, especially at the orphanage, because she is older than most of other children, so she likes to take care of them, and the younger children like to stay and play with her.

She could be shy in front of strangers. But together with the teachers and nannies, she has a very good relationship with them, and they are willing to tutor her and help her with her self-confidence.

She has close friends from school.  She is a happy and out-going girl.

Because her deformity and she is almost 10 years old already, she has started to realize more and more about her deformity and becomes embarrassed not.   She needs a family to love and accept her as the beautiful girl that she is!

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For more information, please contact: kathy@wiaa.org
Grant funding available to qualifying families up to $2500.

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Notice: Adoptions from Haiti to Begin Under the Hague Adoption Convention TODAY!

On April 1, 2014, the Hague Convention on Protection of Children and Co-Operation in Respect of Intercountry Adoption (Convention) will enter into force in Haiti.  The United States will be able to process Convention intercountry adoptions from Haiti that are initiated on or after April 1, 2014.  However, please note that delays may occur while Haiti’s adoption authority, the Institut du Bien-Être Social et de Recherches (IBESR), implements a Convention-consistent adoption process, including finalizing the schedule of in-country fees. 
The Government of Haiti has authorized a limited number of U.S. adoption service providers (ASPs) to provide adoption services in Haiti.  However, they may further reduce these numbers to help manage their caseload.  IBESR may revoke the authorization of ASPs that are not currently providing adoption services in Haiti, which could potentially allow those who remain to process a greater number of cases.  ASPs concerned about their authorization status and those interested in seeking authorization may contact IBESR for more information.
In its March 2014 letter, IBESR agreed to process as a transition case, any case in which a Form I-600 or I-600A was filed before April 1, 2014, as long matching occurs by April 1, 2016 and no I-600A extension is required.  We will provide additional information if it becomes available and is confirmed.  Questions about the transition process, and Form I-600A, and Form I-800A filings should be directed to USCIS.    
If you have any questions about this notice, please contact the Office of Children’s Issues at 1-888-407-4747 within the United States, or 202-501-4444 from outside the United States.  Email inquiries may be directed toHaitiadoptions@state.gov

http://adoption.state.gov/country_information/country_specific_alerts_notices.php?alert_notice_type=notices&alert_notice_file=haiti_5

Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Bodie from Eastern Europe -- BODIE HAS FOUND HIS FOREVER FAMILY!


This little sweetheart is Bodie.  We are featuring him because he is such a great kid but sometimes it is hard to look past a child's face if it is not perfect.  

Bodie has a congenital malformation of the face and because of this has hearing loss, although he compensates very well for it.  

Bodie is very friendly and caressing. He loves to be cuddled and held. Bodie plays with the children from his group.


Because of his hearing loss, Bodie doesn't speak, but he quickly understands how to accomplish things. He deals very well and actively “communicates” with the other children – he gently taps them on the head – that’s his way for communication. He is looking for communication with the other children – they are interesting for him. He orientates well on mimics and gestures. He masters quickly, adapts very well and he is integrated in the group. Bozhi keeps rules (he is learning from trial and error).

His motor skills are developed very well – he is very active. He walks and climbs, he has no problems. Bodie plays, kicks and throws a ball. He plays with every toy.  

 This boy is a loving child who has big darling eyes looking for love. I hope that a family for this boy will be found soon! 


When our attorney met him, she said that he is an extremely sweet baby boy and it is impossible not to fall in love with him when you meet him.

Thursday, October 3, 2013

October is Down Syndrome Awareness Month

This is one of our cuties that has that specific special need. Please e-mail: kathy@wiaa.org for more info!

Monday, August 19, 2013

Haiti Waiting Child Page

Haiti

We are very excited to announce that our Haiti Waiting Child page is up and running!  Check it out by clicking "haiti" on the ribbon near the top of this page.

Monday, July 29, 2013

Love Without Boundaries: There's a Pea in Your Nose!

Love Without Boundaries shared the following article about clefts:
There it was.  A little green pea was making its way out of Ellen’s nose.  I knew it was possible. I had heard the stories of raisins, kernels of corn, chocolate and even noodles sneaking their way into a toddler’s nose.  It’s all part of having a cleft palate.
Even after having a cleft palate repaired, often little holes or fistulas still remain.  Some are very obvious in the palate near where the two front teeth would be.  Some are a little more hidden and can be found in the gum.  Either of these locations lends itself to lunch or dinner remnants showing up in the nose.  The mere act of swallowing literally pushes food between the tongue and the palate thus pushing it through any little hole.  And unfortunately, food sometimes shows up in peculiar places.  Some children figure out how to keep food out of their nose while others are cheered on at the lunch table as they pull a noodle out of their nose.
Unfortunately, until the hole is closed surgically or with an obturator/retainer, food may continue to be found creeping into the nose.  Most physicians recommend a drink to try and wash food particles out or a good nose blow to try and clear any food out of the nose.
Surgery to close a hole or fistula is another part of having a cleft palate.  But how many surgeries do most children with cleft palates endure?  Well, there are the ones most people think of:  cleft lip and cleft palate repairs.  But some children will go on to have surgery to reshape the nose or to have ear tubes inserted.  Some children will have surgery to reshape the lip or for another set of ear tubes.  And then at about eight years of age, most children with cleft palates will have a bone graft surgery to fix the missing bone in the upper gum line.  Multiple surgeries are part of having a cleft palate.
Almost every child with a cleft lip and palate will have ear issues.  Having a cleft palate means that muscles of the palate did not develop appropriately, leaving a hole in the roof of the mouth.  Those same muscles are necessary to effectively work the eustachian tubes of the ears.  These are the tubes that drain fluid out of the ears, ultimately preventing a hearing loss or ear infection.   Many children with cleft palate will end up with ear tubes. Tiny little pieces of plastic can be inserted in the ear drum to allow the ear to drain any fluid or infection.  If left alone, the fluid backs up in the middle ear, causing a child to have limited hearing or hearing that sounds muffled and can lead to further damage of the middle ear.  Not being able to hear clearly can affect that child’s abilities to learn a new language, and to pronounce sounds correctly.  Ultimately, without good hearing the development of good speech can suffer.  Ear tubes, hearing tests, and ear issues are part of having a cleft palate.
And what about speech?  Speech production is an intricate orchestra of muscles, movements and air pressure.  Children with cleft lip and palate often require speech therapy to refine these movements.  Many children who are internationally adopted require speech therapy not only for speech production but also for the development and understanding of language.  Speech therapy often occurs weekly ranging in time from 30 to 60 minutes every week.  But those 30 to 60 minutes of speech therapy is just the tip of the iceberg.  There are worksheets and word lists to be completed and practiced daily.  Speech therapy can last a short period of time, such as a few months, but sometimes the needs are so great that speech therapy is required for several years.   Each child’s needs are individual, requiring a speech therapist to carefully craft goals and the process of meeting those goals.  Speech therapy is part of having a cleft palate.
Extra surgery, ear issues, ongoing speech issues and food in the nose are just a few of the often forgotten topics when adopting a child with a cleft lip and palate.  All are manageable and usually not permanent. However, it is very rare that a child who has a cleft lip and palate needs minimal intervention such as a couple of surgeries and they are just fine.  Cleft lip and palate are not considered life threatening, but having a cleft lip and palate is life-altering for both the child and the family.
~Christina Doelling is a mother of a four-year-old daughter who was adopted from China.  She is also a pediatric speech therapist with over 22 years of experience specializing in the needs of children who are internationally adopted and those that have a cleft lip/palate.

Original article: http://www.lwbcommunity.org/wisdom-wednesday-theres-a-pea-in-your-nose

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Our Second Chance Program

    


Our Second Chance program is the only one of its kind in the U.S. This program is for families who have previously adopted a child, either internationally or in the U.S., and the child’s adjustment has not gone well. The family enrolls their child with our program, and we work to help locate possible adoptive families who have had experience in the type of struggles this child is having. The child’s family selects the new family from the ones we present to them. We screen applicants, and then when a suitable applicant family is found, we forward that family’s info to the current family and then set up some phone calls and also possible visits so the new potential family can meet the child if they would like this (a visit isn’t required). When the child’s family selects a new family, the families each use the services of an adoption lawyer for relinquishment, consents and finalization of the new adoption. These types of adoptions are called Direct Consent, so WIA isn’t technically placing the child into the new home, like our traditional programs do, but instead we help guide both sets of families through the private adoption process so that all the legalities of both states are fulfilled.



We have our fees for this type of adoption as low as possible. In every single case, the first family is in so much pain and crisis, and the new family is taking on the challenge of parenting a child who already has not worked out in the first home.



Nearly every day I talk to families in such crises. Today a family called about a 6 year old they adopted from Hong Kong who has autism and is very violent. Amazingly we have been able to find families for all the children we list.



We use the internet to post a story about the child, using a false name, but using real photos. Our Second Chance Facebook site has over 10,000 members, and when we post a child, there are 10’s of 1000’s of cross posts. Our administrative page shows that we often have 100,000 or more people view the post! It has been as high as 300,000 views of a child.

Check out our Second Chance facebook page:https://www.facebook.com/secondchanceadoptions